Creator of Shine,
Giver of Love
In a residence
hall on the campus of a university in North America, 112 young adults
eat, sleep, and go about their college lives. Looking down from high
up in the air it's a serene picture. But viewed from inside one the
112 young minds, any day can be a speeding twisted ride on an unknown
road leading farther and farther from home. Except there's a warm presence
here that fills the hallways. This building glows in a way that's unlike
most public places. It's because of a woman named Cindy Rexrode. And
although it's her job to keep this stack of bluestone and linoleum named
Converse Hall clean, it's her caring that fills the hallways every day.
And it's her love for the students who reside here that makes this hall
a home.
"Cindy is just an
amazing person...I've been living in Converse for three years and she's
been my housekeeper all three years...and the first year, she was a
friend, the second year a sister, and this year, I really feel like
she's a mom. She's always making sure my roommate and I are having good
days, she never tells us about her problems first, it's always 'how
are you doing?'
Cindy gives the
students presents and cards for different holidays, such as Christmas
and Valentine's Day. While thoughtful and greatly appreciated, it is
the emotional gifts she brings with her everyday that are invaluable
to the students. Kind words of encouragement offered after a failed
test, an unsuccessful try-out or contest, or even a break-up with a
boyfriend can mean the difference between a sudden smile or an unbreakable
frown. Cindy's natural understanding of this, along with her unending
supply of inspiring words, touches the hearts of so many students. She
has been best described as a "ray of sunshine" for Converse Hall.
"I remember a conversation
I had with Cindy once and I asked her how it was that she kept track
of everyone and cared about everyone so much and she said that all of
us had a huge job to do and the students had to go to school, and do
well in classes and meanwhile they had to be so far away from home.
And we didn't have parents or family around and she felt that just by
saying hi and asking how our day was that she could act as that parent...not
get involved too much but just enough to make sure that she knew that
someone was out there caring for all the students."
Cindy also strives
to contribute to the community of JMU. She actively inquires about students'
activities, involvement in organizations, and how they are doing academically.
She goes beyond "Hi" or "Hello" and makes fruitful attempts
to know the students as best she can.
"Cindy really builds
community in how interested she is in everything that's going on...every
student that comes by, she wants to know and understand what they're
involved in on campus, be it a class or an organization...and she remembers
and she takes note of those things, and she'll mention to you, 'Oh,
so-and-so's working on this, is that related...' and she's just very
interested in connecting people and bringing people together and understanding
the depth of the community."
"She definitely
cares about the students in our building. She's not just here to make
sure Converse is kept clean, but she's really here to get to know the
students and to really feel a part of the community. She wants to make
sure every student feels that way."
Professionally,
Cindy's hard work is exceptional. She arrives at the Ashby computer
lab everyday at 6:30 a.m. so that she can make it to Converse by her
usual time. Former resident Hunter Tabony adds, "Cindy works tirelessly
on the building everyday and she really takes pride in her work. Plus,
she really cares about the residents and somehow always has a positive
influence on your day." Sarah Strong, Hall Director of Converse can
speak first-hand of Cindy's dedication. "When there is something that
needs to be fixed, Cindy catches it and reports it right away. Even
when she feels that something may be about to break, she'll come and
tell me." Her willingness to keep the hall looking beautiful is limitless.
"I remember one
day it was the snowy or rainy day and this area of the hall is notorious
for just being completely muddy and I came in one morning and she was
working on trying to get it clean and she goes, 'Sarah, I just can't
keep up. I'm trying to make this place look great, and I just don't
know how I'm gonna keep up,' I said, 'Cindy, you do a wonderful job.
There's only so much you can do...we keep dirtying up your floors.'
And she says, 'Well, you know, it's just my job and I wanna do it the
best I can, I want this place...this is your home, and I want it to
be the cleanest and the nicest and the most comfortable home that you
can have...and that's my job." And so she went right back and started
trying to clean again...regardless of the people that kept walking through."
Vickie Raynes, one
of Cindy's supervisors, speaks highly of Cindy's dedication. "Cindy
works well as a team member. Also, being a good housekeeper means getting
to know your customers. She treats these kids like they are her own
family."
Cindy Rexrode has
given so much love to the students of Converse Hall. Her sweet reminders
to wear a coat when it's cold or take an umbrella when it's raining
are a calm assurance that the students have someone to care for them
so many miles from home. The way in which she selflessly listens to
any problem or celebration a student may be having is remarkable. As
Karen Boxley explains, "She really cares about getting to know
us...not just saying hi to us or just waving, but really when she asks
a question, she listens to hear the answer."
"Well and her
passion for the students really transcends her own life in a sense.
You can never really tell if she's having a bad day because she still
wants to make sure that you're having a good day and she cares more
about you and what's going with you and I think that empowers her and
it empowers the students in so many ways."
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